The magic of making up
All right men, do you know how to keep a woman happy?
The first and most important piece of advice that I have to give you is to always be yourself. Do not try to impress her with phony displays of who you think you should be to impress her. If you need to make changes in yourself, work to become more confident and comfortable in who you are. I am sure that you have noticed how there are many guys that are large or rather ugly that have some of the most beautiful women traveling with them. This is because they have developed that confidnece in themselves, women love that. It is not something that you can fake either. Women are much more intuitive than men are.
Next, show her that you appreciate her. Do some small things for her. Do them unpredictably, not daily, sometimes 1 or 2 per day, then maybe skip a week. No one likes people to be predictable. Show her you are a nice guy but that your not boring. Dont be waiting for a time when you give her a large gift, like her birthday, just something small will set her heart all a-flutter. Even a fast not with a picture of a heart stuffed in her dresser drawer can score you some big points!
A great sense of humor can be the difference between a lasting relationship and one that comes to an early and uncomfortable end. Everyone likes to laugh, get yourself a book on humor. There are many to be found, you can get them used on Ebay or Amazon. Spend a little time in the study of what makes something funny. Stop using just crude and childish humor.
Now stop staring at other women, she may say it does not bother her, but deep down it will be causing her some turmoil. She will feel that you are comparing the two of them. Men wil understand that you are only looking and not trying to make a switch, women do not. So just stop it when you are together.
Next try to develope an interest in something that she is passionate about, you may never be big on romantic comedies but perhaps you could learn to enjoy foreign films together. I know that if you have a great relatoinship she will also try to take an interest in the things that you enjoy. You will get to spend much more time together giving you the opportunity to grow even closer if you can learn to love multiple activities together.
Often once we get the beautiful woman that we have been chasing for so long we feel that there is no longer any reason to keep trying. We may stop shaving on the weekends, wearing only sweats and a t-shirt filled with holes, that is really not going to keep her attention. You do not need to be a fashion model, but do stay aware of the trends. just dress nice, no need for fancy, a plain black t and clean jeans with a black leather jacket will do wonders.
You need to show her some consideration when she is feeling a bit moody, woman sometimes have larger mood swings than men due to differing hormones within. This is not a bad thing, you jsut need to be considerate. work to keep open communications with her and she will be more likely to tell you how she is feeling, but if not work to stay understanding.
Get to know her family and friends, and try to get along with them. Women often have a large circle of people in their lives that will help to support them, you will need thier aproval if you want to stay in her good craces.
Finally, be willing to try new things. When a relationship first begins, everythign is new, exciting, and different. after a few months much becomes routine. Even Sex gets boring if done the same way everytime. So be open to new things, get out of the house and go new places, try roller skating, riding a horse, anything to shake things up, you might even find some new hobbies to enjoy together.
So, there are ten bits of advice on relationships to keep your dating life strong. Look you guys, these things are common sense and the fact is I almost drove my sweetheart out of my life because I didn’t pay attention to what I was doing. There is a book that woke me up written by T ‘Dub’ Jackson called “The Magic Of Making Up“. After I read it and began applying his common sense suggestions, our love life turned around. Not only that all of my personal relationships, with friends, co-workers and my family have become much smother than they were before.
You might want to check out “The Magic of Making Up” yourself.
